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Talking With Your Doctor
Reviewed by Medicinsk Expert•Last updated: 2026-10-22•Social Family Issues

Talking With Your Doctor

Effective communication is essential for quality health care, and being well-prepared for your appointments can help you get the most out of your visit.

Tips for a Successful Appointment

Whether your visit is in person or through telehealth, you can take the following steps to ensure you are prepared:

  • Make lists of any allergies you have and all the medicines, herbs, vitamins, and supplements you take.
  • Make a list of the questions and concerns you want to talk about.
  • If you are having any health problems, write down a description of your symptoms. Include information such as when they started, what makes them better, and what makes them worse.
  • Ask a trusted friend or family member to come to the appointment with you.
  • If your doctor or provider doesn't speak your language, call their office ahead of time and ask them to provide an interpreter.
  • During your appointment, take notes about what your doctor or health care provider tells you, or ask your friend or family member to take notes for you.
  • Be honest during your appointment. Don't just say what you think your doctor or provider wants to hear; they need to know the truth to provide the best care and treatments for you.
  • If you don't understand something your doctor or provider says, ask questions until you do understand.
  • Ask for written instructions if you need them.
  • Learn how to access your medical records, so you can keep track of your test results, diagnoses, treatment plans, and medicines.
  • Ask for your doctor's or provider's contact information and find out the best way to communicate with them.
  • Find out what to do if you need more information later.

Frequently Asked Questions

sk the provider to repeat the information in plain language and to write down key points. You can also say, “I’m not familiar with that term—could you explain it?” or request a printed handout or reputable website link for reference. Taking notes or having a companion write them for you helps reinforce understanding.
Contact the office promptly via the patient portal, email, or a dedicated phone line. Briefly describe the symptom, when it started, and any changes. Most practices have a “message your clinician” feature that alerts the provider without needing a full office visit.
Explain your concerns clearly and ask about alternative options. Request evidence‑based information on the benefits and risks of each approach. If needed, ask for a referral to a specialist or a second opinion that aligns better with your values.
Write down every issue, then rank them by severity (pain, bleeding, new symptoms) and by how long they’ve been present. Start the visit with the top‑ranked items; you can ask the clinician if there’s time for the lower‑priority questions later or schedule a follow‑up.
Source: MedlinePlus, National Library of Medicine

MedlinePlus brings together authoritative health information from the National Library of Medicine (NLM), the National Institutes of Health (NIH), and other government agencies and health-related organizations.

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